LOVE

The Truth About Love

Love is not a feeling;

Happiness is a feeling.

Love is not an emotion;

Anger is an emotion.

Love is not a state;

Confusion is a state.

Love can include feeling and emotion and leave you in a state,

But love is, at heart, a decision.

Love sees the imperfections, sins and feelings and says,

“I still choose to love you.”

(from Blessed Are the Bored in Spirit: A Young Catholic’s for Meaning)

什麼是愛?

愛與快樂不同，它不是一種來去無蹤的感覺。

愛與憤怒不同，它不是一種使你激動的情緒。

愛與迷茫不同，它不是一種不由自主的狀態。

愛雖然往往與感覺、情緒、狀態有關，但它的本質，是意志所下的決定。

即使看見對方的缺陷、罪過和弱點，愛依然會說：「我決定愛你。」

**摘自2008年9月21日觀察日報至高之美.純潔之德(the highest beauty. the virtue of purity)

P.S. 想起家好月圓裡面阿卡成日同嘉美講對佢有feel – 最終都吾長久。

因為，有feel 吾係大哂架。

那個人